I seen someone has been fixing the tarpit patches to work with newer kernels so I decided to try it out with the latest grsec stable which is 2.6.24.5, well it patched fine and all that but on install vdso_install brought an error, that has nothing to do with tarpit so I decided to try with 2.6.24.3 and was succesfull. Here is a pre configured, pre patched grsec 2.6.24.3 kernel with xt_tarpit patch. Also includes is patched iptables source.
2.6.24.3 Kernel with Grsecurity and Tarpit Patches
64 Bit
http://nix101.com/kernels/linux-2.6.24.3-grsec-tarpit-64bit.tar.gz
32 Bit (includes iptables-1.40/tarpit in tarball)
http://fearlesshost.com/linux-2.6.24.3-grsec-tarpit-32bit.tar.gz
Iptables 1.4.0 with Tarpit Patch
http://nix101.com/iptables-1.4.0-with_tarpit.tar.bz2